Consent & Respect: A Day Collar Conversation Guide
A day collar is a personal symbol—not a performance. That’s why consent & respect come first: meaning is chosen, privacy is valid, and comfort matters.
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Sophisticated Velvet Torque & Vertical Bar Layered Day Collar — jewelry-first styling with a private meaning that stays yours.
What “consent-first” means for day collars
- Meaning is chosen, never assumed.
- Privacy is valid: you don’t owe an explanation.
- Comfort matters: everyday wear should stay comfortable for hours.
- Boundaries are normal: when you wear it and who knows is up to you.
A simple conversation guide
- What does this represent for us?
- Do we want it to read as jewelry only?
- When do we wear it (work, travel, everyday)?
- If someone asks, what do we say?
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