Beginner Guide: Your First Day Collar (Comfort + Discretion)
Your first day collar should feel easy: comfortable, discreet, and simple to explain (or not explain). This beginner guide keeps it practical—so you can choose a piece that fits your life without overthinking it.
Step 1: pick your “real life” setting
- Work / office
- Family time
- Travel
- Everyday errands
Step 2: choose a jewelry-first look (current examples)

Modern Chrome Sphere Wire Day Collar — minimal and easy to style with everyday outfits.

Elegant White Rose Pearl Drip Day Collar — soft, romantic detail that still reads as fine jewelry.

Polished Crimson Bow Signature Day Collar — a bolder accent while still staying wearable.
Step 3: get the fit right
For everyday wear, comfort-first fit matters more than anything else. Use the Sizing Guide and choose breathing room if you’re between sizes.
Step 4: have a privacy plan
If someone asks, keep it simple: “It’s jewelry.” “It’s a personal piece.” If you want more scripts, see FAQ.
Browse the collection: discreet day collars. If you want help privately, email [email protected] or use Contacts.







